
I ran my kids through a Tim Ferriss style annual review. Here are the raw notes, just because:
What made you happiest this year?
William (6):
- Putt-putt was fun because we got to be together as a family, and Dad made the huge light light up at the end, and we got the light up balls
- Halloween since he got to be with Declan [his cousin] and get a lot of candy
- Having dogs come visit [dog-sitting for extended family]
- Going to the mall and buying some stuff
Charlie (12):
- Going to the beach but it was stressful because with riding waves with Thomas and also worrying about stingrays, and Henry running away to get shark teeth. Really fun overall.
- Having Zeus [his leopard gecko] makes him really happy like when he’s exploring or comes to his hand
- Having Baylor [his cousin] over and seeing him at school and just doing stuff with Baylor
- Cooking
Henry (9):
- Thanksgiving because we were all together
- The beach because he found a lot of shark teeth
Thomas (4):
- Halloween because of candy
- Putt putt, same reasons as William
- Getting a toy from Nana
Themes (in general, they want more of these things):
- ποΈ Vacation
- π¨βπ©βπ¦βπ¦ Family
- βοΈ Outdoors
- π¬ Candy and toys
- πΆ Pets
- π³ Cooking
What made you unhappiest this year?
- Tucker and Pop-Pop dying π
- Fighting with each other and getting hurt
- Getting made fun of
- Snatching/stealing stuff from each other
- Eating restaurant food instead of cooking at home [this one is mine]
- Worrying about family members getting lost when we’re out somewhere [Charlie has anxiety about this]
- Sitting around the house all day
Start/Stop/Continue
Based on those lists, I tried to run a little start/stop/continue with them:
Start
- Buying new Switch games to play together as a family
- Have Sophie and Oona [dogs] over on a regular basis
- Get a new dog (or maybe just keep dog-sitting)
- Go on vacation during spring break and/or fall break instead of only in Summer
- A meal prep service like HelloFresh so Charlie can cook more
- Going to other parks like Table Rock or Caesars Head or Jones Gap
- Indoor activities like science experiments
- Reading long books out loud at bedtime over multiple days, instead of just tiny kids’ books
Stop
- Going to Cracker Barrel [Charlie hates Cracker Barrel]
- Breaking house rules [we have four house rules that in theory should cover the fighting/snatching/getting made fun of things]
- Eating take-out food so much
- Spending whole weekend days at home
Continue
- Playing Switch games together
- Charlie cooking meals for the family
- Summer vacation with family
- Outdoor adventures like Paris Mountain
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